Wednesday 7 August 2019

Summer infidelities: We know you were unfaithful last summer

You smell the breeze, you notice the sun and the water splashing your legs, you smear sand and put the airplane mode so that nothing disturbs you, but the latter will be more difficult if you see that your partner does not leave the phone alone or to enter in the shower.

At that time the summer becomes a hell of heat and internal suffering, communication does not flow and the other person ignores you or denies everything dealing with you crazy.

That's when you see more clearly that it is summer infidelity, that in the moments that you are left alone with your children, he or she will go for a walk or play tennis with friends splicing with dinner until high hours of the morning. Later you might have to leave a weekend in the middle of the holidays for urgent work issues ... suspicion. All these details betray the adult liar that all he wants is to play two bands.

A large number of professionals, with their studies, show that in the summertime people are receptive to being unfaithful and having an adventure.

The results reveal that one in three Spaniards has once been unfaithful to their partner. With sex, men often succumb more easily to infidelity than women. 60% of Spaniards think that in summer it is more likely and easy to commit infidelity.
The reason?
In summer we usually have a better mood and it is a time of fun, being more predisposed to have an adventure since we are more receptive, those are one of the factors that most influence when it comes to being unfaithful.

And within the range of infidelity there are different reasons, within the three types of adultery they modified; punctual infidelity, double life infidelity or repeated infidelity.

The reasons:

  • For spite. It means anger and anger.
  • Because of a whim. Self-esteem and romanticism are sought.
  • For pleasure. They are adventures by pure sexual desire.
  • To recover the spark. The summer adventure is for the infidel a way to rekindle the flame of life as a couple in times of blockage.
  • Open doors. Use infidelity as a launching pad to break up with your current partner.
  • By empty nest. Mature people are convinced that their partner is no longer what they have and that they still have a lot of life ahead of them.

The ingredients of the infidelity broth:

  • More time = more conflicts
  • Temporary separation
  • New places
  • We are happier
  • We are more uninhibited
  • More free time
  • Break
  • We know more people
  • Seduction game

So you know, if all or most of these factors coincide with what you are living, emphasize communication with your partner and if it is impossible to talk to her, go to a private detective or couple therapy, because as Paquita well says that of the Barrio, the Mexican singer: "Three times I cheated on you: the first for spite, the second for whim, the third for pleasure."

A. Oliver
Private detective


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